Task 22: Snappy Erotic Video

Previous Task | Next Task “Make a one-minute snappy erotic film where the focus is on your emotion and the aesthetic. I remember a friend who used to work on gay porn say to me ‘ the story is told through people’s bodies in porn…well good porn anyway.’ And that’s true, how you channel that is up to you.” Another Video… I haven’t been enjoying the tasks of making videos in that I’m feeling the pressure to make something good Continue Reading →

Traveller in the Dark

“Then the traveller in the dark, thanks for your tiny spark” Over the weekend I took a few different pictures with different themes for Roxy, about which I’ll write soon but as this particular one happened to coincide with Tie me up Tuesday, I’m posting these pictures now. I have a new purple rope, which is a lot thinner but appears to be of better quality. I was rather lucky that my body is small enough to only need the Continue Reading →

Task 21: Capture the Pain of Clamps

Previous Task | Next Task “Capture the pain somehow of having clamps on your labia, this can be a photo or video.” I hate clamps. Yes, I like pain so it’s a bit of a love-hate relationship but let me repeat myself: I hate clamps! Or, at the very least I hate these clamps, the binder clips and have since the very first time Lois told me to use them. The last time I used these, therefore, was when Lois Continue Reading →

Task 20: Erotic Video

Previous Task | Next Task “For your next clip think of a loose storyline and combine close-ups, medium and wide angles with thought to your framing and imagery. Also if you have premiere think of how to make a ‘look’ or cancel areas of digital noise (grain) with masking etc. Although the expectation for porn in low, audiences are sophisticated in that their eyes are accustomed very polished media, so upping your standard will put you in a league of Continue Reading →

How do you know you’re a lesbian?

How do you know? People sometimes ask me. How do I know that I’m gay and not straight? This question came up a lot specifically closer to my coming out. I get it. We’re curious about one another and I have a certain experience that you may not have but the thing is our experiences aren’t different at all. It’s all very simple. I feel the same attraction you feel for someone of the opposite gender except I feel it Continue Reading →

Tie me up Tuesday #8: Stardust Harness

Safety first: Before tying anything, please read over the safety tips rope bondage site The Dutchy has provided. Always have a pair of scissors at hand in case you or your partner have to get out of the rope as quickly as possible! Ok, so, bondage. Last week Thank you all for participating in with the fun! I love our results! Check them all out here. If you can’t find Tie me up Tuesday in my menu anymore it’s because I’ve Continue Reading →

Cuffed to a Chair

Fantasy I pictured a girl bound to a chair with her arms behind her back. That would make a good picture for the rope handcuff prompt for Tie me up Tuesday, right? This girl would be left in the dark and wear a hood to limit her senses. She’d be wearing a remote control vibrator, perhaps? And then… well, you tell me! Since I managed to take a low key picture the first time, I’ve been curious about what else Continue Reading →

Erotic Photography

If you look at the pictures I put out now you’d never think I was scared of doing this once. You probably wouldn’t even think I was shy or struggled with my body image but until this last year, I would have never thought I’d be able to take any of the pictures I take now. I used to be a bit jealous of my friends because they were so free in taking pictures of themselves. I wanted to capture Continue Reading →

Marching with Pride

I came out as a lesbian in 2013, when I was 17 and it took quite a while for me to get there. Looking back, I thought the first time I felt something for a girl was when I was 13. I immediately buried those feelings and forgot about them. Recently though, I remember spending a lot of time with a girl in primary school for a few weeks. We didn’t really have anything in common but liked each other Continue Reading →

The Fading Mark

This bruise was the result of a 50-stroke caning from back in early March. The last picture marks day 9 and it took about 17 days for this to fully heal. I’m not sure how it managed to get on the inside of my leg as she was definitely only caning my butt and thighs but it sure looked impressive! I shared a picture of the bruising from this caning before here. Xx ML  

Task 19: Nettles

Previous Task | Next Task This task, unlike the others, wasn’t planned. I was taking some naked pictures in a forested place about a 30-minute uphill bicycle ride from where I live. I’ve seen people walk here but generally, the place appears to be secluded. Still, when I get there I jump over a fence to steer away from the main path. Naked Pictures The spot where I undress can be seen from the path but I am able to Continue Reading →

Smelling my friend’s worn sock

Previous Post | Next Post About a year ago now, two of my Dutch friends were visiting me in Scotland. We’d done some sightseeing the days before but were just chilling in the living room today. They were looking into booking a trip to the highlands but I wasn’t going because I didn’t have the money. So as they were using my laptop I was on my phone and then Lois messaged me. We said our usual hi’s, told her Continue Reading →

Tie me up Tuesday #7: Tie Those Hands

Safety first: Before tying anything, please read over the safety tips rope bondage site The Dutchy has provided. Always have a pair of scissors at hand in case you or your partner have to get out of the rope as quickly as possible! Ok, so, bondage. Last week I love how all our gags (and the harness) look together! Well done everyone, I hope the experience was fun. Check them all out here. New Prompt & Instructions This meme is meant Continue Reading →

Don’t you want to be my Owner?

Previous Post | Next post I was playing a rugby 7s tournament this day with the universities rugby team. I love rugby 7s because it’s so fast-paced and I’m fast and love to score those try’s as people fall over trying to tackle me. It’s a great feeling! (Rugby 7 matches only last 15 minutes and take place on a full football pitch with 7 players on each team.) We had just warmed up for our first game when a Continue Reading →

Task 18: Spank your Bum Red

Previous Task | Next Task “Get your bum red from some self spanking with a paddle (don’t forget to film it for your fans) and once you’ve done that, apply some baby oil and take a picture, I advise standing over a desk lamp with uplighting.” Self-spanking, mhhmmm, that’s something I’ve done quite often recently. I have to say, it wasn’t particularly something I fancied doing again but it does have a lot more appeal when I have to do Continue Reading →

Task 17: Dramatic Lighting

Previous Task | Next Task “Look at dramatic key lighting and try to achieve that look with your nice new ball gag. The bit rope gag is also beautiful, try making a dramatic lighting photo set with the ball gag and the bit gag, that is your next task.” Low Key Lighting Noooo, are you telling me I have to repeat this task I struggled with so much? Whyyyy. I mean, I know why. It will be beneficial to me Continue Reading →

Gagged

Purple and black work so well together (though a lot of people see blue instead). Whereas the other closeup pictures of this set I’ve posted, I find that in this one, I as the subject look slightly more at the mercy of how gags generally make you look silly. It depends on the screen you view this picture on, but the rope that pulls the bit backwards emphasises the vulnerable position; it’s as if my head is being pulled backwards. Continue Reading →

Holding the Strings

Content warning: Depression, dissociation, self-harm, suicide topics.  I have a lot of discipline as a slave and a person. Rules are important for me in an M/s relationship because they set out the parameter. However, I don’t have to be disciplined much because I am very disciplined. I think it’s because I’ve had to be for different reasons and they are each building on one another. I’m going to have to derail a bit from BDSM to explain how I Continue Reading →

Sunbathing

Dad: How’re you doing? Me: It’s great, there’s the sea, I had ice cream, it’s so peaceful here, I could sunbathe naked in my garden so to speak. Dad: So have you tried it yet? Me: Nope, def not! Check out other spring entries for the Fun Theme Photo Meme. Check out my other spring picture for this meme here.

S in BDSM does not stand for Sex

When I think of BDSM, my mind never really jumps to sex. If you look at the meaning of the letters you’ll notice none of them stands for sex, while there’s certainly an S in the word. But when people hear BDSM they intrinsically think of the bedroom, some handcuffs and otherwise probably some typical vanilla sex. I guess you can’t blame them; porn tends to show some whips and chains followed by penetrative sex, which fills 75% of the Continue Reading →

Tie me up Tuesday #6: Silence Those Subs

Safety first: Before tying anything, please read over the safety tips rope bondage site The Dutchy has provided. Always have a pair of scissors at hand in case you or your partner have to get out of the rope as quickly as possible! Ok, so, bondage. New Prompt! The other week, I was given the task to take some pictures wearing a bit gag made out of rope. I had planned to make this a prompt for a while and I Continue Reading →

Overexposed

Read about how this picture came about here. Side note, no, I did not do this for exhibitionist tendencies! In fact, the 10-second timer on my camera felt so long and as soon as the camera had clicked I ducked! Reposted this picture here separate from the post because of Sinful Sunday. Thank you for the sweet comments on the other post 💛 My favourites Sinful Sunday Pictures from last week Abyss by A sub to Bee They’ve taken needles Continue Reading →

Task 16: Play with Light

Previous Task | Next Task “I would like you to take some pictures of yourself with creative lighting which involve you being in various submissive poses.” Out of ideas Shit. Playing with creative lighting? The image that immediately came to mind was the PurplesGem’s pictures in purple and blue light. Did they say they use some cheap LED light to play with colour? Do I have such a lamp? Nope. So what is creative lighting? Candles in the dark perhaps, Continue Reading →