Mistress and Slave and More?
My dynamic with Lois was very different from my current one with Roxy. The most obvious difference is that one was online and one takes place in person but the Continue Reading →
Category: Life as a slave
My life as a slave is quite wonderful but it took quite a few hurdles to accept myself. I started learning more about myself when I started my training with Lois, my past Mistress. Our dynamic, ended but since I have been blogging about my experiences in the hope to share and educate and show you that you’re not alone if you are just starting out.
When Vanilla People Talk About Kink
Please vote for my blog so it ends up on the sex blogger superhero list! I have been re-reading Sunstone recently because I have been in a bit of a Continue Reading →
Collared for Dinner
Previous Post | Next Task After the crotch rope and some final play, Roxy told me to put my clothes back on (yes, over the rope harness). We packed our Continue Reading →
Crotch Rope with Weight
Previous Post | Next Post I have always been interested in crotch rope predicaments. So much so that it’s one of the few things my ex and I actively pursued Continue Reading →
My Very Own Collar
Previous Post | Next Post Roxy said she’d got me a present for my birthday. I kind of knew what it would be but tried really hard to suppress my Continue Reading →
Seashell Harness on the Beach
I used to live right next to the sea but recently moved. On my last day in the property, I thought I should make use of this beautiful location by Continue Reading →
Changing Connections
Some people are afraid of getting older but what I’m really afraid of is a certain kind of change that comes with the passing of time. You can be the Continue Reading →
A Date with a Domme
Previous task | Next Post It had been about two months since I saw Roxy last when she came over to mine. I had really been looking forward to seeing Continue Reading →
Task 24: Outdoor Rope Harness
Previous Task | My Mistress is Coming Over I cannot remember how she set this task so let’s just imagine it was something like, “Wear a rope harness and take Continue Reading →
Struggling to Use Titles
Recently, I have been struggling to say “Yes Mistress” because it seems like I haven’t accepted the shame of taking on the submissive role. Or at the very least, I Continue Reading →
Sensual Bondage Experience
A few weeks ago, my friend (I’ll call him J) who I had first met at a kink event came over. Contact had watered a bit during lockdown but apart Continue Reading →
Limitless Slave
All of us have limits and boundaries; there’s no such thing as a limitless slave. In a BDSM context, it’s especially important to be aware of these and to communicate Continue Reading →
Put on a Diet
At one point during our dynamic, Lois said she wanted me to start eating healthy and lose some weight. I thought this had been coming for a while but I Continue Reading →
Seeing Me at my Most Intimate
A lot of people are embarrassed to be naked, which stems from being told that we need to safeguard our private parts from a young age. It’s not strange that Continue Reading →
Booty in a Bind
I’ve been making a habit of doing the Tie me up Tuesday prompts pretty last minute so I thought I’d do better this time. As I usually waste my entire Continue Reading →
Head Cage
This time’s Tie me up Tuesday prompt was the head cage and while I thought this one would be fairly simple it was an absolute pain to tie the double Continue Reading →
A Professional Submissive?
When I started doing caning clips the only thing I had to worry about was being on blood thinners (which is perhaps quite a lot to worry about? lol) but Continue Reading →
Slave Mistress Weekend: Sunday
Previous Post | Next Task I woke up early from sweat-inducing dreams so I took a shower this morning, then tried to pass time playing with the injury on my Continue Reading →
Slave Mistress Weekend: Saturday
Previous Post | Next Post I woke up at 9 am by my alarm and got up to have my own breakfast before preparing hers. I didn’t really need an Continue Reading →
Slave Mistress Weekend: Friday
Last weekend, my Mistress came over for the first time. After reading the initial post I know you’re all dying to read how it went and I can tell you Continue Reading →
My Mistress is Coming Over
Previous Task | Slave Mistress Weekend: Friday If you’re in Scotland, you’re probably aware that we get to meet people indoors again. I also still happen to live alone for Continue Reading →
How do you know you’re a Lesbian?
How do you know? People sometimes ask me. How do I know that I’m gay and not straight? This question came up a lot specifically closer to my coming out. Continue Reading →
Erotic Photography
If you look at the pictures I put out now you’d never think I was scared of doing this once. You probably wouldn’t even think I was shy or struggled Continue Reading →
Holding the Strings
Content warning: Depression, dissociation, self-harm, suicide I have a lot of discipline as a slave and a person. Rules are important for me in an M/s relationship because they set Continue Reading →
S in BDSM does not stand for Sex
When I think of BDSM, my mind never really jumps to sex. If you look at the meaning of the letters you’ll notice none of them stands for sex, while Continue Reading →