Rethinking Identity and Capitalisation within BDSM

In BDSM, it sometimes appears customary for dominants to assert their dominance through capitalisation, elevating themselves with ‘Me’ and ‘Mine’, while submissives use lower case letters like ‘i’, overriding normal grammar rules.  While I respect the choice of individuals to do so, it sometimes feels tricky for me to navigate within Femdom. As a submissive this would automatically mean I am ‘i’ or ‘mila’ but Continue Reading →