57 Replies to “My First Caning Session”

  1. Never Waste a Dirty Mind

    Dear Marie Louise,

    Let me strongly recommend against showing your face. It is one of those things you cannot undo and it can cause you all kinds of trouble, if you want to pursue any kind of professional career. Or work with children.

    Showing your butt, on the other hand? As often as you want!

    All the best,

  2. melodyinsights

    What a lovely write up. As I commented previously, I didn’t want to contaminate your experience with expectations. It reads as though this went in the manner I hoped it would for you.

    The lady is obviously an accomplished professional. That’s not just about being an expert with the cane, it’s even more about providing an environment to put you, if not at ease, in a more comfortable and confident place. It’s about knowing you will be looked after and that despite what you are there for, your safety is paramount.

    She’s very accurate and you mark beautifully. I wish I could bruise like that and have it last a while.

    Her checking in with you, asking what sort of level you felt at is so much about her learning your body language. If you see her again she’ll already know what signals you give off in response to pain and be able to push that little bit more.

    Don’t worry about the numbers thing, it’s not a competition – though it took me a while to get that thinking out of my head. For that time and in that environment it is about you, your limits and providing a wonderful experience.

    I do hope you’ll go back as you should start off more relaxed.

    • MLSlavePuppet Post author

      Thank you. Have you written about your experience with caning somewhere? I’m quite curious

      Yes, definitely, she was so good at it and she really wanted to make sure my first experience was a good one.
      I will likely see her again and I’d love to go further. It definitely felt like she was learning about my body language too. I for one learned that rather than my main body responding it’s my feet that like roll in and out? in response to the pain? if that makes sense haha

  3. PurpleSole

    So interesting to read your experiences, I can see why you were so nervous before. But so glad you were able to write in detail about it here. The bruises do look impressive.

    • MLSlavePuppet Post author

      Thank you 🙂 It’s honestly the blood thinners that make me bruise like this. I don’t usually do this much! I think? Guess we’ll see once I’m off them haha x

  4. Old Mike

    This is told do sweetly I couldn’t help smiling but you were brave to agree to be restrained – the initial bruising is beautiful. I was discussing visiting a dungeon with my favourite sex worker today for a more severe caning and was hesitant but your post has inspired me to agree I think. Thank you.

    • MLSlavePuppet Post author

      Aw thank you, that makes me smile. I’m so glad my post helped you in that sense. I hope if you do go, you’ll have as good an experience as me! xx

  5. Marie Rebelle

    Thank you for writing so extensively about your caning experience. It sounds like she knew exactly what she was doing, and like you have quite a high tolerance. I don’t think I will ever be able to go through a caning like this. I absolutely love your marks!

    Rebel xox

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  9. Tom

    That was very hot and I am glad it was a positive experience for you and your pretty bottom! I would very much like to experience an exploratory controlled but serious spanking/caning/whipping like that, but with various implements and not just on the ass (not in a single session of course).

    I very much like the photo taken immediately after caning. So cute and sexy.

    Just curious, how come you were wearing a thong, I thought you wanted to be naked?

    Did you feel aroused by the pain you experienced after each hit? I guess you were aroused before and after the session, but hove about while it was ongoing?

    • MLSlavePuppet Post author

      Thank you Tom! If you get the chance I would certainly encourage you to try it. I am also interested in other implements and in other places. One day!

      She said that I should just keep it on. Something about some people liking it more that way?

      I didn’t feel any arousal throughout the experience. I think I was just distanced and it was in a professional setting so. I don’t know. I’m not that surprised to be honest. I’m sure I must have been aroused but yknow, I can dissociate a little haha

      • Tom

        Yeah, I know about your dissociation issue. It’s difficult to imagine how that must really feel like, even though you describe it very well and I admire your strong will and resourcefulness in coping with it. You are one amazing, charming young lady, no doubt. I do have mood swings, the attitude towards various aspects of life suddenly shifts (usually from positive or neutral to negative and then back after some time). But I don’t think this is dissociation, it still feels like “me”. But I don’t like it because I cannot deliberatly swing out of it, I have to wait until it happens on its own. There are always some triggers, even very trivial, associated with these mood swings.

        My Wife does spank me, but there are basically two ways how She does it. One is a playful, erotic spanking and “torture” of various parts of my body. The other is a real disciplinary session (very painful) which I received only a couple of times so far. My responses to playful and serious spankings are very different while it is happening, even though the expectation of both and the memories of the past events of both types turn me on. However there is a wide uncharted teritory in between playful and real disciplinary spanking and this is what I would like to explore, plus trying various implements and positions for serious punishment and pushing my various limits. Unfortunately my Wife is not fond of such experimentation, that’s why I would like to try it with a pro, preferably a female, but under right circumstances I would also do it with a male.

        • MLSlavePuppet Post author

          Thank you so much Tom! I think it is natural for people to shift between their emotions. Life constantly throws new curveballs at us too. There are ways to get out of it in some ways, but those are different for every person and often quite hard to find and so then simply waiting for it to go becomes the only option.

          Would she be okay with you doing that with a professional?

          • Tom

            I don’t dare ask, I know She would not allow it. She is peculiar in some ways. She is OK with some kinks and totally against some others. But then again, She does things now that She wouldn’t do 5 years ago, so never say never…
            If I ever try anything like a caning session, it will most likely be without Her knowledge. Don’t get me wrong, I wouldn’t get sexually involved with another Woman without Her permission which I know She will definitely never grant.

          • Tom

            I hope She will warm to the idea of experimental caning. I would much prefer She did it, not some stranger. We could both learn from it and I know it sometimes arouses Her to spank me. She has no problems punishing me when I deserve it in Her own way (mostly sexually or by taking my privilliges away), but She only spanked me hard a few times so far. Four times over the last five years, if I remember correctly. But those were not sexual events, even though now from the distance it turns me on to remember them because of the powerful feeling of my real submission to my Woman.

  10. books1799

    Your experience was beautifully recounted in great detail. You really brought the whole experience alive and the photographs were a wonderful addition.

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