Tie me up Tuesday #9: Head Cage

Safety first: Before tying anything, please read over the safety tips rope bondage site The Dutchy has provided. Always have a pair of scissors at hand in case you or your partner have to get out of the rope as quickly as possible! Ok, so, bondage. Last week We are all shining bright like stars! Check all entries out here. New Prompt & Instructions When I saw … picture, I kind of longed to feel this tie myself. So when I Continue Reading →

Traveller in the Dark

“Then the traveller in the dark, thanks for your tiny spark” Over the weekend I took a few different pictures with different themes for Roxy, about which I’ll write soon but as this particular one happened to coincide with Tie me up Tuesday, I’m posting these pictures now. I have a new purple rope, which is a lot thinner but appears to be of better quality. I was rather lucky that my body is small enough to only need the Continue Reading →

Task 21: Capture the Pain of Clamps

Previous Task | Next Task “Capture the pain somehow of having clamps on your labia, this can be a photo or video.” I hate clamps. Yes, I like pain so it’s a bit of a love-hate relationship but let me repeat myself: I hate clamps! Or, at the very least I hate these clamps, the binder clips and have since the very first time Lois told me to use them. The last time I used these, therefore, was when Lois Continue Reading →

How do you know you’re a lesbian?

How do you know? People sometimes ask me. How do I know that I’m gay and not straight? This question came up a lot specifically closer to my coming out. I get it. We’re curious about one another and I have a certain experience that you may not have but the thing is our experiences aren’t different at all. It’s all very simple. I feel the same attraction you feel for someone of the opposite gender except I feel it Continue Reading →

Tie me up Tuesday #8: Stardust Harness

Safety first: Before tying anything, please read over the safety tips rope bondage site The Dutchy has provided. Always have a pair of scissors at hand in case you or your partner have to get out of the rope as quickly as possible! Ok, so, bondage. Last week Thank you all for participating in with the fun! I love our results! Check them all out here. If you can’t find Tie me up Tuesday in my menu anymore it’s because I’ve Continue Reading →

Cuffed to a Chair

Fantasy I pictured a girl bound to a chair with her arms behind her back. That would make a good picture for the rope handcuff prompt for Tie me up Tuesday, right? This girl would be left in the dark and wear a hood to limit her senses. She’d be wearing a remote control vibrator, perhaps? And then… well, you tell me! Since I managed to take a low key picture the first time, I’ve been curious about what else Continue Reading →

Erotic Photography

If you look at the pictures I put out now you’d never think I was scared of doing this once. You probably wouldn’t even think I was shy or struggled with my body image but until this last year, I would have never thought I’d be able to take any of the pictures I take now. I used to be a bit jealous of my friends because they were so free in taking pictures of themselves. I wanted to capture Continue Reading →

Marching with Pride

I came out as a lesbian in 2013, when I was 17 and it took quite a while for me to get there. Looking back, I thought the first time I felt something for a girl was when I was 13. I immediately buried those feelings and forgot about them. Recently though, I remember spending a lot of time with a girl in primary school for a few weeks. We didn’t really have anything in common but liked each other Continue Reading →

The Fading Mark

This bruise was the result of a 50-stroke caning from back in early March. The last picture marks day 9 and it took about 17 days for this to fully heal. I’m not sure how it managed to get on the inside of my leg as she was definitely only caning my butt and thighs but it sure looked impressive! I shared a picture of the bruising from this caning before here. Xx ML  

Tie me up Tuesday #7: Tie Those Hands

Safety first: Before tying anything, please read over the safety tips rope bondage site The Dutchy has provided. Always have a pair of scissors at hand in case you or your partner have to get out of the rope as quickly as possible! Ok, so, bondage. Last week I love how all our gags (and the harness) look together! Well done everyone, I hope the experience was fun. Check them all out here. New Prompt & Instructions This meme is meant Continue Reading →

Gagged

Purple and black work so well together (though a lot of people see blue instead). Whereas the other closeup pictures of this set I’ve posted, I find that in this one, I as the subject look slightly more at the mercy of how gags generally make you look silly. It depends on the screen you view this picture on, but the rope that pulls the bit backwards emphasises the vulnerable position; it’s as if my head is being pulled backwards. Continue Reading →

Holding the Strings

Content warning: Depression, dissociation, self-harm, suicide topics.  I have a lot of discipline as a slave and a person. Rules are important for me in an M/s relationship because they set out the parameter. However, I don’t have to be disciplined much because I am very disciplined. I think it’s because I’ve had to be for different reasons and they are each building on one another. I’m going to have to derail a bit from BDSM to explain how I Continue Reading →

Sunbathing

Dad: How’re you doing? Me: It’s great, there’s the sea, I had ice cream, it’s so peaceful here, I could sunbathe naked in my garden so to speak. Dad: So have you tried it yet? Me: Nope, def not! Check out other spring entries for the Fun Theme Photo Meme. Check out my other spring picture for this meme here.

S in BDSM does not stand for Sex

When I think of BDSM, my mind never really jumps to sex. If you look at the meaning of the letters you’ll notice none of them stands for sex, while there’s certainly an S in the word. But when people hear BDSM they intrinsically think of the bedroom, some handcuffs and otherwise probably some typical vanilla sex. I guess you can’t blame them; porn tends to show some whips and chains followed by penetrative sex, which fills 75% of the Continue Reading →

Tie me up Tuesday #6: Silence Those Subs

Safety first: Before tying anything, please read over the safety tips rope bondage site The Dutchy has provided. Always have a pair of scissors at hand in case you or your partner have to get out of the rope as quickly as possible! Ok, so, bondage. New Prompt! The other week, I was given the task to take some pictures wearing a bit gag made out of rope. I had planned to make this a prompt for a while and I Continue Reading →

Overexposed

Read about how this picture came about here. Side note, no, I did not do this for exhibitionist tendencies! In fact, the 10-second timer on my camera felt so long and as soon as the camera had clicked I ducked! Reposted this picture here separate from the post because of Sinful Sunday. Thank you for the sweet comments on the other post 💛 My favourites Sinful Sunday Pictures from last week Abyss by A sub to Bee They’ve taken needles Continue Reading →

Purple Mermaid Tail

The loops The Mermaid Tie is such a pretty tie. I’m in awe of how the tails of others look like but I struggled to accomplish the same myself. The tie itself is very simple in that you repeat the same step over and over. The tie is more ‘complicated’ for the fact you need to get the loops right and when you start with the first and need to add in the second, it seems like you’d need an Continue Reading →

Spooned

Spooned I recently opened my own Clips4Sale account and have been trying out some self spanking, which is fun! I’ve now tried barehand spanking, paddle spanking and yesterday, I used a wooden spoon and this picture is the result. I can tell you I could feel it when I sat down, lol. You can buy the wooden spoon spanking clip here. Afterwards, I thought I’d have a go at pussy slapping too, haha. You can buy the combined clip of Continue Reading →

I am a Question to the World

“I am a question to the world, Not an answer to be heard, Or a moment that’s held in your arms.”   You smile like Mona Lisa, is what my boss at the time (now close friend) said after the first few weeks that I had worked with her. She wondered what was going on in my head but I couldn’t say. She had opened a small window which cast a single ray of light but I was too far Continue Reading →

Tie me up Tuesday #5: Mermaid Tail

Safety first: Before tying anything, please read over the safety tips rope bondage site The Dutchy has provided. Always have a pair of scissors at hand in case you or your partner have to get out of the rope as quickly as possible! Ok, so, bondage. New Prompt! Woop Woop, we rocked our party outfits and first attempts at these harnesses ~ For this week I thought we could transform our legs into mermaid tails, though the actual tail will be Continue Reading →

Rope Ready

A little late to my own party, but rope ready now, I hope it was worth the wait, ha 😉 Though I should have probably worn some sort of bra, but I wasn’t sure what was going to match. Trying to find an outfit to combine with a rope harness that would work for a party was quite difficult. Once I finished my harness, I realised that it might have been a good idea to wear a dress underneath but Continue Reading →

A Happy Accident 

A Happy Accident Roxy gave me the task to find a secluded spot in nature, take off my top and spread my arms so as to let my nipples feel the breeze. I’ll write about that in a separate post, but while I was there, I thought I might as well sneak in some extra pictures. I hadn’t brought my actual camera though, as it requires me to work with a timer, so instead, I used my phone, which I Continue Reading →