Task 8: Tie Your Own Legs

Previous task | Next task “With rope, give both your legs self leg ties, apply some tiger balm and use your wand till you come. Don’t forget to have music playing that you find ‘sexy’ or ‘arousing’.” I don’t like being cold so I kept my hoodie on while figuring out the rope part. I don’t have two separate pieces of rope and the 10m rope is just about a little too short to do both legs with the usual Continue Reading →

Tie me up Tuesday week 1: Leg Tie

Safety first: Before tying anything, please read over the safety tips rope bondage site The Dutchy has provided. Always have a pair of scissors at hand in case you or your partner have to get out of the rope as quickly as possible! Ok, so, bondage. The Prompt Many of us are total newbies when it comes to rope so I thought it’d be nice to start out with a leg tie, as I found doing one fairly easy. The Dutchy Continue Reading →

Task 7: Rope Harness

Previous task | Next task “I would like you to do some self-bondage. Pick a style of rope harness, learn it and photograph it.” Oh god, rope, I’m so bad at rope. Additionally, how could I make this look pretty enough to be as good as the flowers from the last task? I didn’t want to pick a standard harness but I couldn’t find a good one. I tried a different one before this and I got frustrated with the Continue Reading →

Reminiscing

This picture was taken on the third day after getting caned with the Singapore Prison Cane. I say that as if I know anything about canes, I don’t. I know it hurts though! I was looking forward to more of these canings but it’s going to be a while now due to Corona so instead, I’m reminiscing. The clip of this particular caning can be bought here. Credits to MissSultryBelle. My favourite images from last week Hard times working remotely by Continue Reading →

The Importance of LGBTQ Literature

In 2013 when I was seventeen, I came out as a lesbian. The road to this turning point had been long, confusing, and filled with self-hate. I remember the first time I had a crush on another girl. I was thirteen and my eyes had secretly started following her. She had long, brown, silky curls. Her face was full of freckles and she had proudly kept a childlike spirit that the rest of us felt we needed to shed after Continue Reading →

Task 5: Pleasant Burning

Previous task | Next task “Put on your favourite underwear, doesn’t matter whether it’s ugly or pretty, dig out your tiger balm and apply a small amount to your clit. Take a picture, get creative.” Tiger balm! It’s been a while. I wondered what my favourite underwear was. My entire drawer is very boring and consists only of black thongs (2 white and 2 red ones) and black briefs. I do have a pink and black lace pair but I Continue Reading →

Elust 128

Photo courtesy of Rebel’s Notes Welcome to Elust 128– The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #129? Start with the rules, come back April 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates! ~ This Month’s Top Three Posts ~ I’m pansexual but Continue Reading →

Old Ghosts Return

Content warning: dissociation, depression, suicidal thoughts. Before Covid-19 I walk into my Counsellor’s office and as we sit down we’re both smiling. There is a small, awkward silence; we never seem to know how to start these sessions so he asks me how I’m feeling. The answer to this question has mostly been the same for the past year. I don’t know; I’m not feeling much so he asks me where my awareness rests instead. I tend to notice when Continue Reading →

Task 3: Shaping a Sun

Previous task | Next task “Use some needles; 4 of them to be precise in a place of your choosing.” When I get a task, I don’t want to just do it and get it over with. If possible, I like to do something special or creative with it, though I’m not always sure how. Four needles, for instance, left me wondering what I could possibly do with them. It didn’t make sense to do something with them like I’ve Continue Reading →

Task 2: Masturbating to…

Previous task | Next task “In the evening, dim the lights and put on: Mantra 1 by Popul Vuh. Light a candle, strip down, masturbate and then pour the candle down your front.” This task was a little strange. I listened to the music through my earbuds to immerse myself. It’s not the kind of music I normally listen to but when I started masturbating while looking at the candle, I started feeling rather serene and taken by the moment Continue Reading →

Task 6: Flourish

Previous task | Next task “To grow or develop in a healthy or vigorous way” (All 29 pictures here) Miss Roxy has been giving me some fun tasks which you can follow on Twitter and one of them was finding something beautiful like a feather or a flower or a piece of lace and to staple it to a part of my body. My football team had given me a bouquet after we played the last match of the season, Continue Reading →

Tasks Given by People on Fetlife

Previous Post | Next Post Lois had been interested in having me do tasks given by other people for a while. I suppose this is evident in how she’d ask my best friend what he’d like me to do, or what embarrassing position I should take in pictures. So far, however, I didn’t seem to respond in the way she’d expected me to. The fact that the ideas came from him didn’t make me feel more embarrassed than usual. Next Continue Reading →

Deserving to call her Mistress

Previous Post | Next Post As you know, I’ve always referred to Lois as Miss Lois because that’s what she told me to address her as – that is, for the first half of my training. At some point, this changed and I was allowed to address her as Mistress Lois. The title was something she thought should be earned and eventually I did. Let’s go back to the start though. I never really knew much about titles; I didn’t Continue Reading →

Sweaty hair sticks to my face and I feel alive

I have been exercising on a weekly basis without a break except for summer holidays since I was around five years old. My parents thought it was important for me and my sister to exercise so we had to sign up to at least one weekly sports activity. So when I was five I started judo, then changed to tennis when I was nine, added Aikido for a year around my 16th, started football at 17, while keeping tennis on Continue Reading →

At an Angle

It’s during attempts like this in which I wish I had a photographer and a better location! My other attempts (of which 4 others made the cut only) can be found on Onlyfans here with and without heels. My favourite Sinful Sunday pictures from last week: The Power of Three by Knkstriped I was taken by the idea of this, capturing yourself threefold! I like how each different version shows us a different body part. It’s kind of like being Continue Reading →

Task 4: Wear a Butt Plug for an Hour

Previous task | Next task Last Saturday, Miss Roxy set me the task to wear my butt plug for an hour. I had gone to another play event though and wasn’t home until late where I fell asleep within an hour and so didn’t fulfil the task. I wasn’t entirely sure if I should still do it regardless but now, quite late, I thought I should. Wearing a butt plug is strange. I can feel my own arousal when inserting Continue Reading →

Pleasure

My favourites from last week: Filling the Frame by Discovering Kink I love this composition and how it blurs out around the edges while the spiral is still visible. I feel like the eye is looking quite seductively through what can almost be called a lens and at the camera. I like how her face appears to be slightly tilted and that we can only see part of her eyebrow and only just about her full eye. This was a very Continue Reading →

My First Fetish Event

If you read my post Breaking into the scene? or Attending my first BDSM event you know I was anxious about attending play events or any kinky events for that matter. I freaked out on the Saturday before Sugar Kane, the fetish/play event I planned on going to. My thoughts spiralled, thinking I couldn’t do this and that it was even stupid of me to try. I thought I would make a fool of myself if I showed up or Continue Reading →